Recently a famous Rosh Yeshivah stepped down admitting to of made a big mistake.
Yes a Rosh Yeshivah can make a mistake. Even a great Rebbe and a Tzadik can make a
mistake. Did you know that even an Angel
can make a mistake (see the Shaloh Beis Yisroel 18a quoting from the Medrash).
We do hold our Rebbe’s and Rosh
Yeshivahs in very high regard. The
Tzemach Tzedek (quoted in Toras Shalom p. 169) said that the Alter Rebbe
in the days of the Tanaaim would have been a Tanna. The Chazon Ish (Igros Chazon
Ish Vol. 1 letter 32) referred to the Vilna Goan as a Rishon.
And yet, the pesukim are full of references to the mistakes
and imperfections of the greatest of men. To list a few, see Melachim 1 5:46; Divrei
Hayomim 6:36, Mishlei 24:16 and numerous others. There is even a special sacrifice designated
for any mistakes that the High Court makes.
The rabbis of the Talmud say that Daniel made a mistake (Megilah
12a). The great sage Rava told his
students of his possibility of making an error (Baba Basra 132a).
Yes, the Talmud is explicit (Shabbos 55b-56a) that
one that says that our great Tzadikim sinned is mistaken, or as the Talmud says
(Gitin 7a,) that Hashem doesn’t even cause the animal of the Righteous
to sin, that is all regarding sin, but mistakes they can and do at times
make[2].
Rav Nachman of Breslov famously said (Likutey Moharan I, 72; Likutey
Halakhos, Hilkhos Shiluach Hakein 4:8-11): The world makes a
mistake. They think that a groisa mensch [literally, a “great person”—i.e.,
a Torah sage and tzaddik] can’t make a mistake. It’s not so. Such a person can
make a mistake. The mistake is a mistake and the groisa mensch is still
a groisa mensch.
The Lubavitcher Rebbe a in public talks and
in letters admitted to making a mistake (see Igoros Kodesh Vol. 1 p. 13,
p. 135, Toras Menachem Vol. 12 p. 204).
I am not comparing Rabbi Laam to the Lubavithcer Rebbe, nor
am I comparing the Vilna Goan to Reb Yehudah HaNasi.
…
Recently
a friend of mind told me that he scream at his 8 year old out of
frustration. Later he realized that he
overreacted and apologized to his son.
How beautiful.
Humility and honesty is so important in all aspects
of our lives. But for our leaders, our
teachers and yes us as parents, can make an especially strong impact. I do not think this diminishes their power
and impact, quite the contrary.
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